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June 25, 2007

Conversational Traits To Avoid

Are you an interrupter. An interrupter knows where you are going with the story and will stop you in your tracks. They lack patience when they know where you are going, especially if it is the wrong road, and will cut you off to make their point. If you constantly interrupt, it makes people feel like you're not actually listening and they feel like you are only interested in talking and not listening to them. Let a person finish their sentences even if you have to count to 30. People hate interrupters. They’ll fell like Everything they said didn’t matter. People want to be heard.

Are you the know-it-all? Know-it-all doesn’t realize it but they cut someone down without realizing it. It's how they say things that rubs people the wrong way. Whatever it was they knew it. Know-it-alls are really trying to relate but no one wants to be around a person who makes them feel bad about themselves. They don’t mean to come across that way, but know it all’s don’t realize it. If you have that tendency, you want to soften up your responses a little. If you want to give advice monitor and work to eliminate a know-it-all manner.

Don't monopolize of a conversation by going on and on. People will want to tune you out and escape. You need to learn to balance your time listening. Monopolizers do not realize they are doing it and they have to tell every detail of their story. They'll pick up on something you say and it will remind them of something and go on about it in a speech and tune you out. You’re gasping for air and never get a chance to talk and can keep you 15 minutes before you can butt in. So don't talk for more than 3 minutes

Are you an advisor type? Do you have advice for an endless array of solutions for everyone’s problems without showing signs of empathy? Most of the time people just want someone to listened to them. They are not looking for advice. Let others just be heard. Practice listening and empathizing if you’re the advisor type.

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May 24, 2007

Getting Attractive Women

Most guys go after mediocre girls they know they can get it on with. The really hot girls that would make them happy get bypassed for the easy. They wind up with girls that don't make them happy. A really beautiful woman is treated as "out of his league" and ignored as possible relationship material.

EVERY guy wants a hot supermodel quality, drop-dead gorgeous girl to come home to.

But, you know what? What works on an average looking girl works just as well on a beautiful girl. The only difference is that the beautiful girl had been hit on a bit more than the average girl, so you can't come off like a "nice guy jerk" in order to meet her approval rating.

Most guys are so intimidated by hot looks that they back off and settle for what they perceive as "easy" and leave hot women alone. When really hot girl gets approached she usually gets it from the alpha male slick-line losers that completely turn her off.

You have to BELIEVE you DESERVE being with a beautiful woman and go for it.

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May 21, 2007

Dating Beautiful Women

Date more INTERESTING, intelligent women than you ever thought possible by learning how and practicing those new  found skills. How many couples do you know where the woman  is always demanding, gets upset easily … pretty much  your average basket case. It doesn't have to be you.

Why not be with your dream girl. Why take the backseat  to a basket case?  All too often guys get stuck in a
mindset of insecurity because they feel like "she was  the only girl that I could ever attract." Hogwash.

It's a sad fact, 90% of men lead lives of deseration because they never learned the skills that could open
an entirely new world to them. Most men get rejected when they ask for a date because they simply do not
know how to go about it right.

Certain traits, communications techniques and using  PROVEN approaches result in a high percentage of women
giving you their telephone numbers. You'll beon your  way to dates galore.

We provide a MASTERS course for how to do  just that and more. You'll want to know how to come off
on the telephone, the crucial aspects of the first date  for starters. And there's more.

And if you haven't downloaded my online ebook "How To Date The Beautiful Woman" yet, then go get it! You can
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May 16, 2007

Secrets For Attracting Women

I can't remember when I first started feeling the fear when I approached women to get their numbers. But I do remember overcoming that fear, approach a woman and get numbers, and dates, etc.

If you want to get your blood pumping, there's nothing like being able to walk up to any attractive woman, start a quick conversation, and walk away with her telephone number. If you'd like to learn my best
secrets on how to approach women, then take a minute and read this:

—–sidebar—–
while this type of training is for
master players, I’ll tell you in a
minute or so how you can do this almost
anywhere. You’d be surprised!

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I have an admit I had a deep level fear of approaching a beautiful women. It’s similar to stage fright or speaking in front of a large audience. I felt like everyone is staring into my mind and I’m the emperor without clothes.

And when I managed to get up enough nerve to make a feeble attempt to start a conversation, the tension in my voice betrayed that real nervous guy inside. I was getting nowhere. I even once got a salesman's job in an attempt to overcome my jittery approach when trying to meet women. I even read self-help books and took a psychology class.

Well, if you're reading along so for you know exactly what I’m talking about. Typically most all guys feel this. You think you are emotionally retarded. But you've seen and heard of other guys who don't have this fear. If they can do it, then so can you.

I finally discovered how do get on base and more from learning from master players! I was able the take their best parts and mold it to my style. Not only was I getting unbelievable results, women are easy to approach and getting numbers is no sweat. It’s something I want to share with you.

If you'd like to learn some of my best secrets on how to approach women, then take a minute and read this:

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May 13, 2007

Attracting Women

When you become attractive, women will find you attractive. 99% of getting attractive is believing it. Mental image and believing yourself successful as you take action is the crux of it. The paradigm "You can't teaching a old dog new tricks" is not true.

There are two aspects of attraction: the inner game and the other game. The INNER GAME is learning how to think, manage your thoughts and emotions. It's about learning why women feel ATTRACTION for certain men and how to develop rapport.

The OUTER GAME is all about technique, body language and eye contact, what to say and how to say it. Using good body language brings added confidence in how you handle yourself.

Both are equally important. Both can be learnt, believed and achieved. Both make you attractive to women by going the extra mile and being a student of and doing what is required. Every failure contains within itself the seed of an equivalent advantage if you pay attention.

Rapport Skills, The Art Of Connecting

Have you ever experienced walking into a room, looking at someone and they turn around to face you because they unconsciously caught your vibe? There’s a lot of unconscious mental and emotional energy humming around between people that most are not aware of. Scientists call it NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming). The rapport control techniques are used by cults and womanizer as well as by gentlemen and psychologists.

You can unconsciously control another person’s feelings by being sensitive to any sensory input you receive by watching and modeling it. It will tune you into that person’s frequency. She will be UNCONSCIOUSLY BE ATTRACTED TO YOU.

When your establish mutual feelings you feel the same. Your body language is probably similar. Even your breathing patterns mirror each other. Speech pattern, eye movement is similar. You are attracted to someone who is like you. On the other hand, shen someone is being obnoxious you want to leave.

We gravitate to people who behave the way we do and like the things we like. We have the ability to forge and instant bond with anyone, anytime; anywhere when we have the talent called rapport. With report you can control the way others see you and dissolve communication barriers. You can alter someone else’s mood and behavior, even create more intimate and fulfilling personal relationships.

Rapport creates a powerful feeling of attraction. Falling into sync with another person and being able to lead them in the direction you want them to go is VERY SIMPLE. A lot of it comes down to your emotional state of mind. If you transmit nervous, uneasy signals you’ll get someone’s antennae up in standoff mode. If you initiate and follow through, rapport intensifies.

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