The Attraction Principle

A women’s hierarchy needs to be understand. She’ll compare you with other men. She’ll compare you with men in her past even with the new guy on the job.

Women are never attracted to weakness and men acting in a submissive or needy way. When you start off on the right foot the emotion ATTRACTION starts it's motor inside her. Kind-a like the purring of a cat.

Women don't choose attraction, they FEEL attraction.

However, you do see weak men marry. Often it's because she's been courted by the same guy for many years and finally gives in, and/or it's for money or he's the best she can get. But she'll never feel attraction for him.

Women are attracted to James Bond types, Russell Crowe in the Gladiator type characters. When relationships sour, women become annoyed and if the man acts more and more weak and distressed. It's a viscous cycle. Weakness upon weakness and the attraction that was disappears. The guy's left wondering what went wrong? Some men even reduce to gut-less begging or guilt inducing projection manipulations.

The guy thinks: If somehow I could-a/would-a/should-a just tell her how much I really loved her she would not have left. Wrong! What you need to do is make yourself into a universally attractive to any women sort of guy.

In the nice guy world your taught to believe in, doing nice things for a woman who's left you doesn't cut it. Buying presents, flowers … etc. isn't going to do it. Going to the fortune teller won't. Magic incantations won't do it. You don't want to be "just friends" with her. You need to stop being available.

Get busy with your life, go to the gym, meet other women and date them. If you wind up talking to her and want to tell her you have to run and get ready for a date, MAKE SURE it is an ACTUAL date. Don't be a phony since most women have a built in bullshit detector. Learn to de-wussify yourself permanently by incorporating strong manly character traits.

When and if you do finally get your shot win your ex with the new universally attractive you.