Before you ask a girl out on a date, the FIRST THING you have to ask yourself is: "How to I rate in her book?" Is she into you, is there a deep attraction or is it so-so.

When you call or see her you need to communicate your desire for her so she'll know that you want more than a friendship. But do it in a way that’s not over-the-top in her book. See it from her perspective. You don't want her to think you just want to be friends either.

If she's on the fence about you, you'll have to work some charm and flirt with her, even if it subtle, so when you ask her out you don't surprise her and catch her off guard. If you didn’t set her up so she’s not expecting you to ask her out, you might just scare her into saying no. So develop a feeling of RAPPORT and have fun.