Say you go out and get turned down 3 times a week and get one phone number per week. Or, if you’re the guy who bumps into four new girls a year and gets one phone number. What’s the difference? Consistency and getting off your butt and going for it. If you want to date a woman you have to play the game and get out there. You can’t let the fight go out of you.

When you're single, meeting women can get to the level of being a part time job. Going out night after night on the hunt invests valuable time honing your RAPPORT skills, BODY LANGUAGE techniques and APPROACH LINES so they become natural and effortless and easy. You have to be able to make new friends and talk to strangers by getting into the habit of starting conversations and getting them to talk about themselves.

If you create an active network of friends, meeting women who will be open to dates and contacts becomes much easier. You naturally have to meet people to build this social network.

If you have your game down and you’re confident, your attraction value to women goes up immensely. When you’re quick on your feet armed with a few routines and have had the chance to practice in bars and clubs to build up your skills, you’re well on your way. Opportunities disappear quickly so you have to be aware and capitalize on them when they become available.

Starting conversations with strangers and getting those girls to talk about themselves is a must have skill. Most are starving for attention and with a little prodding you’ll have much to listen to, if you so choose.

Bars and clubs are good places to practice because there’s a huge number of women available in one place. When you practice your skills, confidence gained from these encounter experiences builds. Even department store malls are a place to practice your skills. There the sales girls are paid to be nice to you. Need I say more?

The more confident you become in your ability to attract women the more success you will experience as these women pick up on behavioral cues you give off. When you act casual and laid back, confident, display good body posture and mannerisms, things begin to happen.