October 8, 2008
How To Make Women Instantly Like You
How do you change the way you come off? Self-awareness is one of the critical factors that is a game changer. The behavior you demonstrate and the effect you have on others need monitoring. No matter how good your behavior effects others, one false move can undo 99 good moves. Learn to keep an eye on open for pace and subtle clues for feedback.
Pay attention to the things you do that creates attraction as well as the things you do that cut off it. One attraction killing trait will undo 99 positive attraction characteristics. One needs to extract any negative behavior in order to come across attractively. A strong self-awareness is a must!
The art of making a woman feel totally attracted and comfortable with you is a feel as you go method. Sexual tension is created using a little good humored teasing, throwing in a little cockiness and playing hard to get.
Even if things are going along gangbusters, if you exhibit negative behavior, you'll be out of the big picture. If you get too mushy to fast you'll get tossed or be in constant danger of being replaced. If you follow her lead all of the time you'll cut off chances to exert personal authority. Eventually you get tossed into the manure heap and lose any chance to regain your dignity.
No whining, no revealing the tender feelings and walking on eggshells for her approval. These are attraction killers. Living an interesting life a demonstrating a strong sense of personal authority gives a woman pause to notice. If you don't demonstrate strong behavior, she'll be looking for someone who will challenge her.
It's a matter of self-preservation. If you are not doing the right things to challenge her, she'll see it as a character flaw. A woman wants to feel a distinctive attractive quality for their man to the point of addiction.
Even after you begin dating, if you let your guard down you are in for trouble. If a women begins to feel she has total command over you, you lose favor in her eyes.
The idea is never to let a woman feel she has entirely ruled you. There needs to be some resistance and mystery. Every women really desires a secure Alpha male in her life.